I knew that some things would change when Logan was born. However, there are two things that I love that were made much harder with Logan around: cooking and taking long, hot showers.
I love to cook. Pre-Logan, I would put on the i-pod, pour a glass of wine (or water while I was pregnant), and spend hours in the kitchen cooking dinner. I loved it. I knew once he was born, that it would be hard to cook for the first few weeks. But I was prepared. I had my mom in town for a week, so she cooked. About a month before he was born, I filled the freezer with meals that were easy to defrost, heat and eat. That got me through another two to three weeks after he was born. In between, I would cook on the weekend when Matt was around to care for Logan. Then, after about a month, I had to cook with Logan by myself. It was rough for a while. He is always more active in the evening and cluster feeds. Both of those make it hard for me to cook. I found myself doing prep work while he took his long nap in the afternoon. Overall, it became a stressful time for me.
I love long, hot showers, especially this time of year, when the thermometer reads 20 degrees on a good day. Again, with my mom in town and Matt home for the first week, I was able to take those showers without a problem. Then mom left and Matt returned to work. My strategy each day was to wait until Logan went down for his long nap (2-3 hours) and then move him upstairs with me to his bassinet and try to shower and dress before he woke up. The problem with that was either I mistook a catnap for the long nap or I would wake him up trying to move him. In the case he woke up while I was in the shower, I would get out of the shower and my baby would just be fussing. But then, by the time I was dressed, he would be full out crying. Many days I would wait until Matt got home and take a shower at 8:00 or 8:30 pm. I hate showering that late. My long, hot showers became a thing of the weekend. Showering became stressful for me.
This was all before Logan fell in love with his bouncy seat. The bouncy seat vibrates and has a few toys that dangle in front of him. He was not a fan for a few weeks, but now he loves it. And it is great because I can carry it up and down stairs and into other rooms with ease. The bouncy seat now frequents the kitchen and the bathroom. He will either sleep in it or be completely content just vibrating, bouncing, and studying the bug-eyed insects in front of him. While the shower is not as long as the weekend ones, it is of decent length and hot. As for preparing dinner, the i-pod has returned. Sometimes Logan will even sing along with me. The stress that used to accompany these daily tasks are a thing of the past.
Bouncy seat, I love you!
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Yay Bouncy Seat! Yes, Logan is sleeping like that. |
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Logan's view of his buds Johnny, Leroy, and Skeeter (Daddy named them) |
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"I love my bouncy seat, really." |